Don't take offense or think we're trying to "show
off". Ninety five
percent of the time, we're trying to get out of your
blind spot or
taking ourselves out of a potential dangerous
situation that has
evolved around us. Distancing ourselves from
you does not
mean we want to race, but that we're giving
ourselves the
edge we need at the moment.
When
you hear our horn:
Don't take offense or think we're trying to aggravate
you.
All we're doing is letting you know where we are in
relation to you
on the road, and we're more than likely aware of your
inattentiveness
to us while you're talking on a cell phone,
eating, reading or
involved in some other distracting aspect to your
driving.
It's important to us, and you, that you know
we're there.
When
you hear our loud pipes:
Don't become angry and hostile toward us. Yes, some
are quite loud,
but for some, there's a purpose behind being loud.
It's about letting
you know we're close by and we're constantly hoping
that our
investment in this accessory will help save our lives.
Our pipes are
really not about our ego...it's a pride and
personalization to our
form of transportation.
When
you see us in our clothes:
Don't become fearful of us or think us weird. Our
leather jackets,
chaps, gloves and boots are the barriers between
loosing massive
amounts of flesh should something cause us to go down
...nothing more, nothing less. Safety gear is paramount to our
riding.
We wear patches on our jackets, and pins on our vests.
These are symbols of pride and honor within our group(s),
individuals giving back to those who gave. These things
bond us as a brotherhood and sisterhood among bikers.
Not that we're
better than anyone else, but that we have the same
kind of nobility
and pride in our accomplishments as you may have in
the various
aspects of your life. I guess one could say; our
patches and pins are
the decals and the bumper stickers of our involvement
with society
and the general public, of which we are very pleased
to be a part of
in our own little way.
When
you see us in a restaurant:
You don't have to shield your child or feel
intimidated. We have
family, wives, husbands, children and loved ones too,
just like you.
We smile; we laugh and enjoy the moments we have. We
are
approachable, and would befriend you, if given the
opportunity.
When
you see us in a parking lot:
Don't convince yourself that we're there to "get you".
More than
likely, we just finished a long ride and are taking a
break. Or, we
may be meeting up with other riders for a charity run
for young
children, or another very worthy cause. We may just be
admiring one
another's bikes, sharing our pride with other brothers
and sisters,
just like you do with your personal
vehicle. It's what we do..
.it's a part of our lives, and we'd be more than welcome to
share
with you what riding a bike is all about...if
you'd only ask.
When
you see aggressive riding bikers:
Don't put us all in the same stereotypical category as
those whose
behavior and actions would cause you to react in
disgust and intolerance.
Many of us do not agree with this style of riding either, and
we know
and understand that human nature tends to blend us all
together as the
"same group". Most of us don't want that title...and don't
deserve it.
When
you see a group of bikers on the roadways:
Give us the courtesy of sharing the road with
you. Please don't
"move in" between several bikers in formation. This gets
us very excited and nervous, especially when it's done
with
no due regard for our safety. Provide us with your
awareness
of the fact that we are much more vulnerable than
you.
We don't want to challenge you, for all of us are wise
enough to know...we'd lose that battle.
When
you are turning left or entering a roadway/highway:
Look, then look again...and then one more time. For we
can be easily
hidden, and appear to be invisible by such things as a
telephone
pole, another vehicle, bright lights or the glare of
the sun...or
possibly, the beads hanging from your rearview mirror,
among numerous
other items that are displayed there. If you see us
flashing our
lights at you or blowing our horn, we're only trying
to ensure that
you will see us before tragedy changes both our lives.
When
you are behind us:
Please give us the room we need and don't tailgate us.
If you hit us,
we're going down...HARD! We don't want to play games
with you, we
just want to enjoy the ride and the fresh air, and
experience that
which many of you have never lived for. If we
accelerate away from
you, don't interpret this action as though we
want to drag race you.
We're only trying to take ourselves out of a bad
situation
if you insist on being too close.
When,
and if, you experience road rage:
Don't take it out on us just because we're smaller
than you and more
vulnerable. Think about what you're doing and the end
result that may
become a reality. The consequences of your actions and
choices could
be very detrimental to our well being, our families,
our children and our loved ones.
Yes, there are those that can tend to piss you off,
however, rage
towards them will not solve the issues, but accentuate
them. Nine out
of ten bikers will do everything they can to take
themselves out of
that situation without causing you or them harm.
When
you have an opportunity to talk to us:
You'll discover, outside any influenced or
stereotypical mindset you
may have, that we are just as human as you are, just
with different
interests and toys. Many of us would give you the
shirt off our back
if it would
tend to brighten your day or console you in some way.
We're really no different...and we drive cars, trucks
and vans too.
So, meet us and greet us...I think you'll be
pleasantly surprised
that you'll be met with open arms.
Thank
You for attempting to understand!
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